Dear Men

Everyone talks about the girls who stay awake every night thinking about that one thing that they hope to have in their lives. About how much they suffer and cry plead to themselves to stop contemplating stuff that will never ever happen. About how much they force themselves to smile every day regardless of the misery they go through every night of their lives sharing it with that one special person they have, and sometimes not even being able to convey their feelings to them too!

But, what about the men who do that? Who is talking about those men who is struggling just as much as those women to smile through the sickness and not even being able to cry or to say that to anyone of about how much they want to scream and pour their feelings out but not being able to do that either unlike those lucky women! Ever wondered why men are not talked about as much as those women? Ever wondered why they are not able to cope up to have even that one single person to whom they can tell everything to unlike all those women who have sisters or brothers or best friend? Have you got the slightest of idea of why men are always silent even when they’re in grief? Why don’t we have enough people talking about what goes on behind this silence? Why don’t men have poems or essays written to boost their morale formidable again? So that at least they know that there are further men other than one he himself who is not up in arms with their insecurities, negative perceptions about who they are and what they will be in the near future.

So this is for those who are battling this war aloof. Don’t be naive; you’re not alone going through this. You’re not weak enough to give away this. There will be a time when you will cherish these countless nights and days which moulded you of who you will be. Strong and formidable enough to clash through any occurrence of badness and disparity. You will shine brighter than those any. Have faith in yourself. Have faith in lord. The better days of yours will come, maybe not immediately but definitely. Until then, work as much as you can, thrive to be the best of who you can, and that day of virtue and brightness is not very far for you.