Dear men
Don't follow the girl who is not head over heels about you. It's not worth your time. It's not just you who should be giving her surprises by turning over to her work place after her shift, getting a bag of food and spend time with her watching the sunset/rise or call her out of nowhere and tell her how much you love her. It's not just you who should be head over heels about her. You deserve the same. If she doesn't surprise you, tell you how much she loves you, kiss you out of nowhere, tell you the darkest of her fears then it's just a waste of time. You deserve more.
Be with someone who doesn't care about your financial status and spends time with your family without any hindrance while you do that same to her. Remember, a relationship that doesn't build you both is just a relationship with no context. Let her surprise you, express how grateful she is to have you. You deserve all of that as much as she deserves it. And if you find someone like that, don't you dare cheat on her or make her feel that she is not the Queen of this world. You are her king and she is your Queen. Build yourself a kingdom with a woman and cherish her.
Always remember to give her freedom and personal space while you take that for yourself. Let her do what she loves to do and better if you do it with her. But also know that you deserve the same from her. It's okay if she's busy and not there for that one event you wanted her to be with you, your life probably didn't revolve around that one particular thing and if it did, and she's not there, you're wasting your time with her unless she has a valid reason of not being there with you. Understand her but also get understood. Your relationship is not to while away your time. Be a king and get treated like one.
